Why do people cheat? :(

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Simon Posford
almost 4 years

Some people just don't know the rules of poker

Backward Z
almost 4 years

the problem isn't cheating, the problem is our view of relationships as mutual ownership

MrsRachelG1986
almost 4 years

That would be amazing! =D Love you!! :::*

Uernibal
almost 4 years

Aaaaah now I can understand.. of course... You 2 are PERFECT togheter!! My Brain works very slowly sometimes... So Raoul is the famous Peter! Now I can say that you are more than special! in my dreams one day we will dance all togheter under the same shponglerhythms sharing the best!

lil_pipey
almost 4 years

Thank you Rachel! <3

MrsRachelG1986
almost 4 years

Haha! Yes, 'special' is the right word to describe us! :) Hunter S. Thomson claims credit to 'Raoul Duke' as the perfect alias, it just sounds so much better than my husband's real name! lol
Lil pipey, this is just to show that there is true love out there (even if it involves weird stuff & longing to get with our celebrity crushes)! I am so sorry that you were deceived. That is really unfair, but know that all of us here love you very much!!! If you need to talk one on one, just message me (I was royally cheated on in my teens, so I can relate). Know that everything that happens makes you who you are - even the shitty stuff.
Ian has an excellent point, those Ted Talks are wildly informative - I'd check it out! Everything will work out for you! xoxoxo <3

Uernibal
almost 4 years

Ups! sorry my bad.. :(
I was offline for 3-4 days and I read all in the same time and..
Next time I ll think 10 seconds more how/where answering...

lil_pipey
almost 4 years

^ thank you!

Ian Highley
almost 4 years

There is an excellent TED talk titled why we cheat that may have some answers if that's what your actually after. Sorry your going through this.

Uernibal
almost 4 years

*Raoul...

Uernibal
almost 4 years

You guys are special! (::;ç
we can say that we all really care about little Lil but... What arrests my attention is how catchy name Raul Duke is! It s like Dylan Dog or Tex Willer... Fant-ass-tic Hero! Now I can See the whole puzzle! Butt-plug, Minaj, and truly love! Lol! huhuhu
PS: no slightly use for her!

Staler Verweij
almost 4 years

Lol you guys are brilliant <3 , hope all goes well Lil

MrsRachelG1986
almost 4 years

^Oh really husband?^ at least now I know! ;)

Raoul Duke
almost 4 years

Opportunity

richario
almost 4 years

What they said! It's usually their issues and insecurities, not anything about you. Keep your chin up and good luck!

jerbin
almost 4 years

đź‘Ť to good advice đź‘Ž to people who can't be real. keep your head up. the bumps teach us the most.

lil_pipey
almost 4 years

thanks guy. much love <3

MrsRachelG1986
almost 4 years

Sorry girl :( I totally agree with the above advice. Just know that it's not your fault & people almost always cheat because they're insecure about themselves. Someone who isn't completely open & honest with you is not someone who deserves you anyway! You're young & beautiful - on to the next one babe, don't sweat it

nionn
almost 4 years

I don't know. Maybe not long ago when we were apes in t trees, loving was more free-form and openly, experimentally playful.

Dishonesty not cool tho. Also, connecting to just one person is fine. Or hanging out being a solo sea turtle for a while is nice. I hear snacks, a pipe and a (single) stroll in the park calling my name lol : )

Good on you for braving heart ache and dating tho & hope stuff works out differently next time. Fish, sea etc.

Preamp
almost 4 years

Oh no! You must be feeling awful, amongst many other emotions. That's terrible to have been treated like that. Some people are just downright selfish. It's hard, but certainly not impossible, to recover a relationship after something like that. Depends what you want to do now. Some ideas that come to mind are : push the cheating bastard over a cliff, tie their private parts to a boulder and push that over a cliff, arrange for one of the reindeers on Rachel's xmas sweater to give them a jolly rogering...
So sorry to hear about that lil pipey. I don't know what to say except that I'm sending you love. xx